I know the feeling cuz its part of how we think, but please - Enough with the DAMAGED GOODS analogies already.
Please do not take this personally but we are NOT damaged. Injured,
wounded , bereft of tools and coping skills yup we are all those.
But damaged implies factory seconds, beyond repair, reduced to clear or
final sale. I have yet to meet any survivor who is any of those things.
Wounds heal with a scar often stronger than the tissues they replace.
Bone heals with a callus that makes it less likely to break again.
Lacking skills or tools means a new opportunity to gain insite and
understanding, maybe at at time in our lives that bring more meaning and
gratitude than could have ever been possible.
I know we tend to sometimes think of ourselves as less than, but:DAMAGED GOODS - Not a fucking chance!
By 1lifenow
http://www.malesurvivor.org/
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